Self Esteem Narcissism and Spirituality
Compare what is said about inflated self-esteem in middle and late childhood (ch. 10) to potential narcissism in adolescence? What is the role of spiritual formation in developing a self-confident, mature adolescent?
During middle and late childhood (ages 6–12), self-esteem is influenced by feedback from parents, teachers, and peers. Some children develop inflated self-esteem, often due to:
- Unrealistic praise (e.g., “You’re the best at everything”).
- Overprotection from failure, preventing resilience.
- Social comparison—some children overestimate their abilities despite actual performance.
Inflated self-esteem can lead to entitlement, difficulty accepting criticism, and frustration when faced with challenges.
Narcissism in Adolescence
In adolescence (ages 13–18), identity formation becomes central, and some teens develop narcissistic traits, including:
- Excessive self-focus—a need for admiration and validation. Self Esteem Narcissism and Spirituality
- Lack of empathy—difficulty recognizing others’ perspectives.
- Fragile self-worth—inflated self-image that crumbles under criticism.
While some level of self-focus is normal in adolescence, unchecked narcissism can lead to social difficulties and poor emotional regulation.
Spiritual Formation and Healthy Self-Confidence
Spiritual development can foster a balanced self-view by promoting:
- Humility and Gratitude – Acknowledging strengths while valuing others.
- Resilience and Purpose – Finding meaning in challenges and failures.
- Empathy and Service – Developing a mature identity through relationships and community engagement.
- Moral and Ethical Growth – Internalizing values that guide self-worth beyond external validation…
During middle and late childhood (ages 6–12), self-esteem is influenced by feedback from parents, teachers, and peers. Some children develop inflated self-esteem, often due to:
- Unrealistic praise (e.g., “You’re the best at everything”).
- Overprotection from failure, preventing resilience.
- Social comparison—some children overestimate their abilities despite actual performance.
Inflated self-esteem can lead to entitlement, difficulty accepting criticism, and frustration when faced with challenges.
Narcissism in Adolescence
In adolescence (ages 13–18), identity formation becomes central, and some teens develop narcissistic traits, including:
- Excessive self-focus—a need for admiration and validation.
- Lack of empathy—difficulty recognizing others’ perspectives.
- Fragile self-worth—inflated self-image that crumbles under criticism.
While some level of self-focus is normal in adolescence, unchecked narcissism can lead to social difficulties and poor emotional regulation.
Spiritual Formation and Healthy Self-Confidence
Spiritual development can foster a balanced self-view by promoting:
- Humility and Gratitude – Acknowledging strengths while valuing others.
- Resilience and Purpose – Finding meaning in challenges and failures.
- Empathy and Service – Developing a mature identity through relationships and community engagement.
- Moral and Ethical Growth – Internalizing values that guide self-worth beyond external validation…
